[arejay888]

My wife and i have been together for almost three years, when we are together everything is perfect. we connect in every way except communication. i am the type of man who wants to talk about our problems while she would rather have space and no talk at all.

Two weeks ago she called me on her way home and asked if i had been cheating on her,( i have been accused 4 times, and all are complete lies and gossip) i said of course not and she said she didnt believe me.so she went to her parents house to stay there.this happened on a thursday. i tried calling her and texting her but she wouldnt respond so i went up to her work hoping we could sort all this out. this was on saturday. all she could say to me is that i have cheated and she didnt believe.and she needed space.(it turned out that her sisters fiance told her sister that i had been cheating on her, he was doing this i believe because i used to work for him and he fired me and still had vengeful feelings)(i have been told from the place that i used to work at that he was going to screw me over when the time was right)i still tried to call and text her but she wouldnt respond. so i went to her work again and she mad at me for not giving her space and told me she still loved me and missed me and didnt wanna believe all this but she said said she didnt believe me and she needed space. i asked how long she needed and she said there is no time limit on my emotions. 2 weeks have gone by and i havent talked to her in 5 days..i want my baby back what do i do to get her to communicate with me?

[Ask April Masini]

Unfortunately, if she doesn’t trust you, the trick is to build back her trust. Your problem is that you haven’t done anything for her to have any distrust about! 😮 The best you can do is tell her why your brother in law is telling her what he’s telling her and hope that she knows you and him well enough to understand what’s happening. If she doesn’t, then I don’t think this is going to work. It’s impossible to have a relationship when there’s a big lack of trust.

I really do wish you luck on this one and that she comes to her senses.

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