[Aldeakrans25]

I am a 23 year old young adult, and I have a question about meeting girls, and then continuing the contact. After 4 years of stressful studying, I’ve graduated college. During those 4 years, with an exception of a small 3 month relationship, I’ve been alone.
I’ve discovered that meeting girls is perhaps easiest in public transportation. In my country (located in southeast Europe) it is more-or-less socially acceptable to engage in a conversation with the person that you’ve sat next to in the bus.

I’ll keep things brief. I met a girl while waiting for the bus. She recently moved to a dorm in my city and started attending college here. The conversation was interesting and friendly . The bus came, we sat next to each other, continued talking, I got off on my stop. Through a friend that was in the same college I managed to find her facebook profile. ( My friend doesn’t know her personally)

What should I do next? If I want to meet her again, the second encounter must be planned, only to look coincidental. Random luck can only get you so far. 🙂
1.My friend sent me the lecture timetable from her group. I could grab a book and lounge around in the library, have a cup of coffee in the cafeteria and then bump into her. When asked, I’m gonna complain that my neighbor renovates and I can’t stand the noise.

2.I could add her on facebook right away. Not a smart idea. Girls get ton of invites, and It just seems really creepy, she never gave me her facebook profile, she will think that I stalked her or something.

3.Something else I never thought of? Help?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’ve already answered your question here: .

Please do not create multiple accounts for the same person. If you want a quick and/or private response, you’re welcome to opt for a premium answer from me! 🙂 That will get answered within 24 hours and often quicker than that!

[Lidya]

The best way is to go back to the bus stop where you met her at the same time. This will feel natural and will also maintain your self-respect.
So my dear, don’t be a detective, be a hero. If you missed your chance, try again naturally; otherwise, wait for the next station.

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