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    angie b
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    It has been two months since I have been with this guy inwhich I had dated for three years. He has called me duing the month of November on the 6th and the 18th. His latest was a text on the 23rd asking me to send him a picture of me. (right before the thanksgiving holidays).

    I replied with a text asking if the text he sent was meant for someone else. He stated that it was meant for me. I could not believe after two months of not being together that he would have the nerve to ask me for a picture.
    I had already felt he had moved on and cared nothing for me since he was the one who stop communicating with me. I did not call him the whole time we were apart and the only time I spoke with him was the dates I listed in this post. (He did not call over the thanksgiving holidays). I did not expect him to since I am sure he has been dating other people.

    Since I have not called him during his time away from me. Is this his way of trying to make amends or check to see if I have feelings for him?

    Angie b

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    He’s putting out feelers to see if you’re still interested in him, but he’s not yet offering you anything other than to be one of the women he texts, collects photos from and dates. So don’t misread his message as one of reconciliation. He’s definitely missing you, but it’s totally your decision if you want to respond to him now that you’re not his girlfriend any more.

    He’s probably dating other women, and he would like to date you, too, although not get back together in the complete way you were together during your monogamous relationship.

    If you’re interested, all you need to do is respond. But it seems from your post like you’ve moved on, and that playing around with someone who’s not interested in giving you a full commitment (since he was the one to break off your relationship) is going to be a waste of your time.

    Ultimately, whatever message he is sending you is way less important than what you want for yourself in a man. Keep your eye on the ball. 🙂

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