[Cajun20]

Hello,

There is this woman that just moved to the area that I haven’t seen in 20 years. When she found out I was here I was told that she was so excited. She pretty much remember me just like that but it took me a minute to remember her.
So as time went by I helped her get herself situated. She wanted to be around me constantly and then we started to hangout once during the week and twice on the weekend. During that time there was a lot of flirting; comments and a little touching.
We have been going to lunch and dinner often. I forgot to mention after a week she was here she told me that she had been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. I didn’t think nothing of it because I was just hanging out with her. But in the past two weeks I have started to be more attracted to her. So I asked her several occasions if she was enjoying her time with me. She told me that’s why she hangs out with me. I then asked her if she was attracted to me and if she was starting to like me. She said she was going to keep it to herself. Anyway we went out last week and I asked her again.
She said it’s hard to answer that because of her boyfriend. The following day we had a misunderstanding. I made some comments that was not directed to her but she felt they were so got real upset. It had nothing to do with us or her relationship. She didn’t talk to me for the rest of the night. The following day we resolved our differences and went out to dinner and shot some pool. That same night I flirted with he a little bit she then told me that she doesn’t like that. I was surprised with her comments. So the following day I told her I enjoyed spending time with her.
I asked her doe she feel the same way. She then responding saying she enjoy going out with people. I was confused with her response. So I asked her if she was attracted to me. She told ask me why would she allow herself to be involved when she’s in a relationship. I was shocked with her response. What should I do? How should I respond? Should I stop contacting her? I haven’t spoken to her since. My thing is I’m not trying to break up her and her boyfriend. I just wanted to see where her head is at.

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