A few weeks ago I admitted to a guy who I thought of as just a friend that I had a crush on his friend. He kept trying to find out if his friend was single or not and turns out he was in a relationship, which caused me to back off. I felt awful afterwards because I went to lunch with him a few times and thought he was single and interested. Apparently, it is very common that he is interested when he is not single. When I was upset, his friend (the one who I thought of as just a friend) kept sending me messages asking if I was ok and trying to comfort me. Long story short, his friend asked me on a date and I said yes because he seemed so caring. On the date we ended up going on, he made all the plans. He picked the activity because he had free admission, our dinner plans fell through and we ended up just sort of wandering around the city, which was ok I guess. When I went to get out of the car, I think he really wanted to kiss me (like full on make out) and I just wanted to kiss him on the cheek but he positioned himself so that was not possible. I kissed him a little, all the while extremely uncomfortable, and then awkwardly got out of the car. The next day he sent me a text asking if I wanted to come to his house (which is really not close at all or easy to get to) for another date later in the week. I don’t really feel comfortable going to his house. I told him I was busy every day he suggested and that it is really difficult for me to get to. When I told him I was busy, he began asking me what plans I had. Is it me or is he way too clingy? It bothers me that he has to know what I am doing all of the time and that after one date he thinks he in entitled to know. I have known him for probably 10 weeks before we dated, which isn’t very long but it’s not exactly a short amount of time either and before this he would mention about past girls he had sex with and stuff. Am I wrong to feel uncomfortable? I almost feel like he took advantage of the situation I was in. Now he wants to know when our next date is and he is really pushing for it to be at his house. I don’t know what to tell him because I am all sorts of confused. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
