Before you decide what to do — stay or go — you should clarify what’s going on. 😉 You’re reacting in a vacuum, and the reality is, you’re in a relationship with this guy right now, and you both deserve to have some honest, one on one communication. My advice is to talk to him about what you found. When you talk to him, it’s best if you can ask him questions and really listen. I know you’re upset, and you’re getting lots of advice and opinions, but he’s the most important source of information right now. So find out what’s going on.
After you hear him out — and try to really listen, and not blast him with your emotions which may prevent him from telling you everything, then approach the problem as a couple, if that’s what you both want.
After you have that information and that conversation, then you’ll be in a much better place to make decisions. But for now, you have to just find out from him, what’s going on with him, and what he wants to do next — before you decide what you’ll do.
If you write back, let me know how old you both are. 😉
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