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Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 years now, and some of the things he does I find are disrespectful. Firstly, some of his friends are really ignorant and disrespectful to me. He has one friend who he gets together with a few times a month on average. This friend has been rude to me on several occasions, and has even been rude to my friends. Usually when my boyfriend gets together with him, he stays out till like 4 in the morning with him and I am awake waiting for him to get home safely. I have had many sleepless nights due to him partying and bringing his drunken friends home so I don’t like most of his friends coming to our house because I usually am working and can’t be up all night from their partying. My boyfriend has taken off with friends at all hours of the night and left me home alone. Every time he tells me that he has plans with his friends I get really nervous.I’ve talked to my friends about the issues with my boyfriend and his loser friends, and they think he’s totally in the wrong with the stuff he does to me. I am sometimes resentful towards him. When I confront him about the things I don’t like he turns it all around on me like I’m the one in the wrong, and he even says that he resents me!! All of his friends are single, except for the ones that we are mutually friends with. I don’t know what to do, am I overreacting, or do I have a reason to mad about his behavior? I love him and when our relationship is good it’s REALLY good, but when our relationship is bad it’s awful. I do all I can to make him happy including most of the chores because I know he’s busy with school work and I already have my career. I feel unappreciated.What should I do??? please help!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Do you really want to be with a guy who disrespects you? 😕 After seven years of dating, this relationship doesn’t sound like it’s going anywhere. 😳

You shouldn’t be mad at him — you should be mad at yourself for wasting your own time (and his!). My advice is to read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], and then get back out there and start looking for Mr. Right. The book will explain all sorts of crucial tips to you, like the fact that a man who acts single, wants to stay single — your boyfriend sure acts like a single guy, and after seven years of dating and now living together, that’s not a good sign.

Don’t waste any more of your time. Get out there and find the guy who loves and respects you — who will be that prince you’re looking for! 😀

Hope to see you @AskAprilcom on Twitter, and on Facebook: [url][/url]. 🙂

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