Thank you for the extra information — your ages! 🙂
So, here’s the facts about your relationship. About 9 weeks ago, you met a guy on a trip and spent three great weeks with him. Then you left that country, came home, and after 6 weeks, the communication between the two of you has cooled. He’s losing interest, and you’re wondering if you should take a trip you planned, back to see him.
What I can tell you is that if a guy stops contacting you, it means he’s losing interest. If you press him for reasons, you’re going to push him away further. Getting a guy to chase after you takes different skills than demanding accountability or imposing expectations — especially after such a short period of time together. So, if you want to be more alluring and attractive to him, don’t press him, don’t call him, and when he does contact you, be the woman he wants — not the one he feels he has a failed obligation to. 😉
Next, I would tell you not to take a trip back to see him. Let him chase you — if he does, you’ll know how he feels about you, and you’ll be giving him the opportunity to chase after you — something that men really do love to do when they’re into a woman.
Long distance relationships are very different than in town relationships, and there has to be a commitment to the relationship in order to make it work. When you’re still getting to know each other during the first three months of the relationship, it’s really the time to decide if you still want to continue to date each other or not. He may be realizing he doesn’t — and that’s normal within this time period.
I hope this helps.
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