woah cowboy…
like i mentioned to several other posts — April has told everyone that the welcome area is not to be used as the Q & A advice forum. it even says “DO NOT post your questions” here, when you go to sign up. 😯
i suggest you delete the questions you posted in the welcome forum and repost them in the Q & A Relationship Advice Forum instead. i doubt you’ll get a response if you leave them in the welcome area.