[philips_40]

Well its basicly a real long storey but, we were inceprable for our 2 years and now she went off to school and doesnt want a relationship, shes changed in her 3 months being there and isnt the same person i fell in love with
any advise
thanks

[Ask April Masini]

It’s time for you to accept that it’s over and to move on. It’s very normal for people to want to break up with their girlfriends and boyfriends when they’re going away to college so that they can experience college social lives and be free to date other college students. This isn’t because you’re a bad boyfriend or a bad person. It has everything to do with where SHE is at this time in her life. I’m sorry you’re hurt, but if you accept the reality that she’s in a different place, and try to find someone who’s living near you and is doing the same thing you are, whether it’s working at a career or in school in your town, it will make your life easier — and better.

I hope that helps. I’m sorry you’re hurt, but I think if you can let go and move on you’ll be happier.

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