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so i hv been asking her out ever since i got to know her. she claimed she was busy the first time but agreed the 2nd time.

we had been instant-messaging on mobiles nearly everyday before first date (mostly i started up the conversation and she replied, but if i didn’t call one day she would message me at the end of the day. Also, if I replied say in an hour, she would only reply after two hours. She would always take longer time than me to send her reply)

however, on the actual date, all things were well first, she kept asking me questions and stuff like that, but midway she said she had to leave early for some dumb excuse…coz i had to agree. She acted cool after that and only replied when i started a conversation…probably the date only lasted an hour

After the date she still replied my messages, but only after a long time the message had been sent, and the reply was brief and short.

I think there probably are two only possibilities

(1) I must have done something wrong that had annoyed her, but probably not because I don’t remember saying anything wrong, and I am generally a good talker, albeit i am a bit nervous around her on that day…but she knew me before that and I think she knew my character well…

(2) she decides to act tough and makes it harder for me to get to her, so probably i had to value her more.

[size=150]The main thing is, what should I do now? I think it is natural to cool down for a few days before calling her again.
Or should I act cool and ignore her for sometime so she may have a rethink?
Or should I pretend to lose interest on her so that she may get mad and find me again?[/size]
Thanks for the help in advance 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re coming on too strong and you’re driving her away. Asking her out every day since you’ve gotten to know her is desperate behavior. Desperate behavior is not attractive to women. 😳

Leaving in the middle of the date usually indicates she wasn’t having a great time and wanted out. She may not be interested any more.

My advice is to read Date Out of Your League, a book I wrote for men who want to win with women. This book will help you a lot and give you tips and advice on winning over women. You should buy it and read it. Here’s the link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

Let me know what you think after you read the book.

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