[midweststudent1988]

April,

I need help interpreting something my girlfriend said that has been troubling me. We went out with some friends on saturday night, and to keep this short, I usually dont do this but I became very intoxicated and dont remember much of the night. The next morning I can tell something is bothering her. I ask her what it is, and she says that she is “fine.” She leaves early that morning, and doesn’t talk to me until that night. I asked her what was going on and she told me that she “was going through a mini phase” and that “she was thinking about things way too much” and that she was better. I can provide more details if you need them…. but what on earth does that mean?!?! we’ve been dating for about four months and everything has been great so far. no fights, no disagreements, and she brings me around her family very frequently. This really caught me off guard. please help

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Since you don’t usually get so intoxicated, she saw a side of you she hasn’t seen before, and during the first four months of a relationship, she’s evaluating whether or not she wants to continue seeing you. This new information about you is going into her analysis — or “mini phase”. She’s figuring things out. I hope that works as interpretation. 🙂 Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebok at this link: [url][/url].

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