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Need help with a work crush

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    Ilovebonbons
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    So i just started working in a call centre about a month or so now and from the first day i went in for an interview i noticed this one guy and havent been able to get him out of my head since ,he seems like a really calm grounded and nice person who i could get to really like ,something about his vibe connects with me ,problem is we have never talked ,we only both work 3hour shifts daily at night ,and its in a busy noisy call centre ,he works for a different department so he sits 2 rows behinds me and we arent facing each other so i cant exactly establish eye contact ,i have never seen him go for a cigerrette break so cant get a chance to talk there and we barely get breaks at all since our shifts are short so we cant get to chat and talk in the cafe or anything like that,he pretty much leaves as soon as hes done with work ,like evryone else and at this point all i know is his first name ,i cant exactly just walk up to his desk and casually strike up a conversation because its so busy and we have to stay on the phones all the time its full of people in there as well who are mostly always sat all the time and i would just die of nerves and anxiety if i did that ,i have seen him glance at me a few times but i couldnt read his glances ,because i dont know him well yet,so im stuck and cant get him out of mind ,so please any suggestions and help ??

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    AskApril Masini
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    You need to flirt with him, and give him some sign that you’re interested in talking to him. When he glances at you during work, smile at him. Wave. Beckon him over. These are ways to let him know you’re interested in him. Try to find a way to walk over and talk to him — compliment him, ask him a question about something — find a way to engage him in some small talk. Lots of guys want to know there’s a chance with you, so if you show him some interest, he’s more likely to follow through than if you don’t.

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