[Jimmyt]

Met this girl at a festival last year and we ended up swapping numbers,we went on 3 dates and things where going well,the 3Rd date we ended up sleeping with each other, few days later she starts going cold and says she’s not ready for a relationship but had a nice time,I responded yea me to which left me confused. I still had this girl on Facebook and snapchat and she would view every single one of my snaps,few months later I decided I’d message her and see how she was she and got completely blanked?? But she continues to view all my snapchats almost like she’s playing games can’t work her out advice needed thanks ps I do like this girl alot

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Not everyone you like will like you back. She’s not interested. 😳 There could be a number of different reasons, like, she’s got a boyfriend, or has become more interested in someone else, or she decided that after three dates, she’s not into you — but the bottom line is that she’s being very clear with you, and I think that you’re not as much confused as you are disappointed. I get it. Find someone else to date who’s a better match. 🙂

[Jimmyt]

Thanks for the advice yea,suppose social media is confusing things wish she would delete me in a way least I’d know where I stood

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Social media isn’t the basis for where you stand in a relationship. Behavior is. If she responds to your direct requests for contact, whether they’re offers to go on a date, phone calls to see how she’s doing or texts to ask her a quick question — then she’s in the game. If she doesn’t respond with her actions, then she’s out. The fact that she keeps you on social media doesn’t mean anything. I understand that you might want to hold onto feeling that there’s a shred of hope because she hasn’t deleted you from social media, but I think you should move on. Behavior is always the best arbiter of a relationship’s health. 😉

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