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    annihilator85
    Member #204,117

    Hey April,

    I think I have a little different situation then a usual relationship problem. I met with a girl amonth ago online.
    She started to write and then requested to add me on facebook. after couple of days we just wentfor a drink and hadanice time.
    after a week I realized that she didnt have the same excitement. in the meantime we were just talking online.
    I have met girls online before and I didnt have nice experiences with them. First I didnt even want to add heron my facebook.
    but in ashort time I realized that she was a really nice girl. I still dont know why i did, but during one night I was just pissed
    that she was writing me back like before 🙂 and i deleted her from my facebook. just in 10minutes later she senta message and asked why I deleted her.

    I said ( I know how stupid this is) “I dont want anymore online friends that see each other once and look for another”. Ok, I was drunk.
    It is hardd to explain but i still dont know why i did such a silly, horrible mistake.I mean even if we dont have any chance I would like to be stay in touch with her.
    I have never done smt like that even o my exgirlfriends. I told her that it was a mistake and try to explain the situation but i failed. because
    like she said it is weird, and i should have a reason to delete her. Afer that i think i trolled her a little bit like 3 or 4 days:) then I realised that
    it doesnt work, i stopped. Now i think that it was a really big stupid mistake which caused me to start to hate myself. I mean I am not that type of guy with a huge ego, and doesnt care anyone.
    I was always scared to make nonrecoverable mistake like this. I also told her that i just want to see her again in my friend list, nothing more. I havent wrote her for a week.
    What do you think about this situation?

    Thank you!

    Dave

    #24082
    AskApril Masini
    Keymaster

    I think you should forget about it and move on. 😉

    I also think that for future, you should be careful about your boundaries. If you go out for a date with someone and decide that you don’t want to date them again, let go completely — don’t lead them on or keep them around “as a friend”. It won’t work. Also, don’t friend someone on social media unless they’re really your friend. Someone you just know for a month — because you met them on a dating site or somewhere online — isn’t really a friend. They’re more of an acquaintance. 😉

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