[Anonymous]

I am 41 yrs old man and have been with my ex for 9yrs who is 41 yrs old women. She is sweet like sugar until she gets upset or jealous. Iam a easy going guy. Our relationship started to came apart and she asked me to move out in 2009 . I think the it was due to the pressure of bills,possiblity of losing the house and chores not being done by the kids. So i get the mad face and yell at. I found a apt and moved out in Oct 09 as she wanted. This hurted me bad to move everything didn’t have a job when i moved. i never lived on my own before. Always lived with a woman long term. I tried to socialize, hang out ,meet people go out drinking. We stayed friends and talked. She saw me with another person and got a hold of that persons number. In feb 2010 she wanted to ge back together and wanted me to move back. She started looking for the benefits of a girlfriend and we were not together. She feels it should be easy to get back together and forget about what happen between us. I think i need time to get over the pain. She wants me to make my mind up quicker. And i want here to see a angry managament. What should i do thanks.

[Ask April Masini]

Don’t move back in. You’re just going to end up repeating the same patterns that led to her kicking you out. She’s lonely now, but soon enough the stress of work, bills and kids will add up and she’ll do exactly what she did in 2009. But here’s what you should do: Get a job and start working and making money so you can live on your own. Get your own life together and then start looking for a woman who has hers together, too. You’ll be a lot more able to get to know each other without all the hassles of kids, work and bills — those things happen anyway, but it’s nice to start out with your life in working order. 🙂

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.

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