[LostBoy]

I am hanging out with a girl that I really like, just as friends not a date, but I am hoping that things over time could progress to more if things go well. NOt getting my hopes up for anything, but will see what happens.

The problem is as its getting close to us hanging out, I am getting very nervous to the point of almost making myself sick.

I know the reason, its because in the past relationships I have had, I have been hurt to extremely hurt and afraid of these terrible feelings happening again by any female. Even if we are just friends.

Even though like I said we are just hanging out as friends, if there is a shot at more I don’t want to screw it up by my fear of being hurt again.

How can I get over this besides the obvious just facing my fears and going for it?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Please re-post this as a “reply” to the string of questions you started on this subject about 10 days ago. It’s a lot easier for me, and everyone here, to see the history of your question in one place. I’ll answer your post as soon as you put it up with the last one. 😉

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