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My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship since August 2nd, so it hasn’t been long at all. I’m 29 and he is 24, and he only lives a ten minute walk from my house. He asked me to be his girlfriend two days after we met and I said yes.

The problem is, he only seems to one to talk to me once a week and that is only to invite me over to his house to watch a movie and be intimate. I know it was probably foolish of me to be intimate with him so soon, I’m kicking myself for it now.

The thing is, last wednesday he insisted on coming over for dinner and meeting my parents. It was his idea not mine, and then we did the regular movie and stuff at his house. He waked me home and upon deciding when to see each other next he told me I should call him instead of him calling me, not that he called me often anyways. He’s one of the generation that likes to text everything but hardly texts me either.

Anyway, I called him Thursday after returning from work and knowing that he was already finished with work as well. I got his voice mail and a left a message, no biggie there. He never called back. I waited until Saturday after I got home from work. I worked the early shift and got home at 11 am so I knew he wasn’t in work yet and sent him a quick text saying hi and asking how he was. no reply. a few hours later he finally replied apologizing and saying he had been real busy during the week. So after work on Sunday, I figured he was out of work as well because he works at a liquor store and they close early on Sundays so I text him and asked what he was up to.no reply again. Finally on Monday, just a few hours ago I text him and stated that he was being awfully sparse and what was up. still no reply.

So I took a stroll to his facebook. something I would never do ordinarily and found out that he was really busy going to his friend’s housewarming party Saturday night, and to a fair with two guys and a girl last night.

I’m wondering if I should just call it quits. My other idea is to just not bother with him and wait for him to call me so we can try to talk things out, but is it worth it?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Next!

He’s not acting like someone who cares about you, and frankly, he’s not being very generous. Time to move on.

Consider reading Think & Date Like A Man, a book I wrote for women who want to date in order to find Mr. Right. I think it will help you a lot. Here’s the link where you can purchase it: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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Thanks for the advice April. I had decided to break up with him today, as he had finally called last night to make plans for today and even my plans for breaking up with him fell through. He text me a few hours ago saying he had to help his grandparents with something and maybe we could reschedule for tomorrow when I get out of work. Jeez, I can’t even break up with the guy the right way! Now I’m just angry. 👿

Thanks Again,
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[April Masini, your AskApril]

Good luck!

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