This is not normal, but… it’s your life, and it’s your marriage, so if you want to make things better, you have to make some changes. 😉 He gave you a hint — he wants you to dress more femininely, and instead of shooting him down, why not go through the door that he’s opening? 😉 As his wife, it would be nice if you wanted to please him, and if he wants you to wear sexy lingerie or sexy clothing, and act mysteriously and seductively — I can’t think of a good reason why you wouldn’t or shouldn’t! Lots of women prioritize sex with their husbands, and will invest in sexy clothing to make their husbands happy, because the intimacy and the relationship make them happy. In relationships you have to do things for each other. Sex is a facet of a relationship that is different than work, and if you have work clothes, put them away when you want to have sex. Take a long bubble bath, have a glass of wine, set the mood with a romantic dinner, candlelight, a fire in the fire place — whatever makes you feel sexy and whatever he likes. Great sex is about pleasing each other.
I just happened to suggest a book to another person on this forum, and I don’t usually do this — except when I think it will help. The book I wrote for couples who are in a sexual slump is called [b]Romantic Date Ideas[/b], and it gives (at least one person in the relationship) you the opportunity to set the stage for the best positive sexual outcomes. Why don’t you see if it inspires you at all? Here’s the link: [url]https://askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url].
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