[Anonymous]

i have been dating this wonderful guy for the past 9 months. i helped him out alot with getting his life together and getting things straight. we have decided that we want to spend our lives together. we started fighting and arguing alot towards the end. it got physical a couple of times and this last time he took off and left on foot with no phone or anything. i didnt talk to him for over a week. i knew where he was but decided it was best to give him his space. now we have talked and he says we are together and we are being faithful to each other, we just cant rush back into living together and everything like we did before. i love him with all my heart and dont know what i would do without him….since he hasnt been here i have been completely miserable. i admitted my faults and know that i need to work on myself. does it sound like he is going to come back? or do i just give up all together??

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I can give you an idea of what to do. 🙂 But first you have to see what you’ve done. It sounds like from what you’ve written that his life was kind of a mess when you met him and you helped him put it together. Then within nine months your fighting turned violent and his anger is pretty uncontrollable. Now, he doesn’t want to live with you. 😕

This isn’t someone you call Mr. Right. I don’t know how old you are, or what your history of men has been, but I can assure you that you can do better.

I hope that helps — although I’m pretty sure that wasn’t the idea you wanted. Let me know how things go, and please join me on Facebook. Here’s that link: [url][/url].

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