[Anonymous]

i’ve been talking to this girl for like 6 months and we’ve gotten really close we’re not bf/gf yet but we both know it’s gonna happen the only reason it hasn’t yet is because we live kinda far and i told her i want to ask her in person she says thatd be better. i already told her i like her more than ive ever liked any other girl and that ive never felt this way about a girl and its true i wouldnt just say it. i wanna tell her i love her but itd be the first time and itd have to be thru text or on the phone i dont know if she’ll think its creepy should i tell her?

[optimistvik]

Yeah i think you love her

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s wonderful that you have a big heart and you have a lot of love to give, but it’s probably best if you meet this girl and spend a little time with her before you tell her you love her.

The internet is a terrific way to meet people and connect and communicate. But when it comes to personal relationships the internet shouldn’t be the sole means of communication. In fact, nothing beats person to person. The problem with professing your love to someone who lives too far away to get together with in person, is that you may mistake your internet relationship for a real life one.

You sound like you’re young and have a lot of life ahead of you, so why don’t you try and meet this girl and spend some time together first, before you tell her that you love her. There’s no way she’ll think it’s creepy if you do it in person.

[Serena Vale]

You don’t need to rush this. What you’re feeling is real, but saying “I love you” for the first time is better in person, especially since you already plan to ask her out face-to-face.

Telling her over text or the phone could put pressure on her, even if she likes you just as much. Waiting shows maturity, not fear.

See her. Spend time together. Let it feel natural. When you’re sitting across from her, you’ll know when it’s right, and it won’t be creepy at all.

Love lands better when it’s said looking someone in the eyes.

[Member]

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