[marissawv1978]

Ok I met this guy from myyearbook long long time ago & we rediscovered that we have known each other since gradeschool actually, I am 33 and hes about that age too. and well basically one year we got into it and we moved on and I had his cell phone number and I texted him and wanted our friendship back we started being friends again and then we were clicking all over again having feelings, etc He showed up gave me a surprise visit and we just basically talked that entire night. the night was calm, the breeze was so cool & warm on a summer night last year. and well before we talked through emails, yahoo, and hed sign on his cell phone to yahoo on it so I wouldnt waist mins etc….anyhow more less to say I have problems and I messed it up and we talked before and he was like if things goes well then Ill move back here and we will be closer to each other blah blah blah. well we met and next day later I never heard from him and I kinda went nuts and sent nemerous of msg’s on his voicemail and I totally lost it & I was sad, hurt, alone and was missing him for 6 months and just couldnt move on….then I moved on, made friends, and its been almost a year now & I am totally going crazy, missing him more, and I dont know what to do cause I am not eating right and I am alone. I got a wii station, a new flat inch tv, internet and a cat what more can I ask for right? well I have it all just I am lonely and going through a ” want company ” stage and I just cant eat right either did I mention that? Its been this way since we split, and really I want him back so much its killing me and I left a msg unsure. Is anyone feeling this way?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The best way to get over him is to start dating again! A cat and internet service aren’t going to get you out of the house and into new social situations where men are! 😕 Read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you understand how to get a man — and keep him. There’s also a section on WHERE to meet men.

I’m not sure why you aren’t eating right — you just have to make a decision to keep good food in your house, and eat regularly! There’s a chapter on that in the book, too.

Decide you want to get healthy and meet new men, one of whom may be Mr. Right, and then DO IT! 😀

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[Anonymous]

Thanks april you are so kind to me, and I am glad you responded back to me and gave me what I needed I am just so sad not hearing or talking to sam. I mean I am out walking around and stuff, But I am not a social person to stay out in public long enough to meet someone. though with memorial week coming up we do have a festival event each year and I am there but I only go there for my nephews and my family but I am not there long enough I just dont like public that much. I am pacing around back and forth as you said as its not good for me.
I am trying hard to get out more and stuff, I was raised as a tom girl which lead to a hard normal life, depression as a teen. then on I was really shy and idk anymore 🙁

[April Masini, your AskApril]

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