Hi April, just hoping I could have some feminine advide.
I go to a community college and there is a girl I like that goes there as well. I see her mostly everyday and she sees me too. It’s easy to walk up and talk to her because she always by herself walking to class or to her car. The problem is she’s always walking, going somewhere, she’s never sitting at a table so I can just sit with her and talk. The only way I can talk to her is just by waiting for her class to end and as she walks by the lounge get up and walk with her. I’m afraid she might get turned off if she thinks I was waiting for her to walk by. Don’t want her to think I’m stalking her. What can I do to make a move on her without her thinking I’m a creep?
One thing I do want to mention was the other day I was walking out the building and while I was opening the front door she was walking to go inside so I held the door for her and smiled. She looked into my eyes but didn’t smile or even say thank you. Not saying thank you really bothered me cause girls always thank me and smile for holding a door for them, kind of rude too. She did seem very upset, thought she looked like she was about to cry. She might have had a bad day, but I’m not sure what this means or why she didn’t acknowledge me by smiling and saying thank you. I know your not her, but why might a girl do that?
You’re procrastinating – and looking for reasons not to ask her out because you’re afraid of rejection. 😮 If she does reject you, then you have the opportunity to move on and set your sights elsewhere, where you might succeed! If she doesn’t reject you, then you need to get ready for your date. 😀
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