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    We are a perfect match in every way -we are both educated, late 30’s, own our homes,have great income’s and have deep feeling’s for each other. I have never been treated/loved so well in my life. (and for the record he is ONE OF THE NICE GUY’S), and believe me I know the bad boys. My children adore him AND he wants us to have a child together which is a dream of mine.

    So here is the catch- he has man boobs and a really small penis. I love sex and would love it multiple times a day but I just can’t force myself to have sex with him!

    Life is so unfair!

    If he was in an accident and could not have sex ever again, I would marry him in a second!

    I am now making excuses to not see him, really lame excuses because I am such a bad liar.

    I have been with bigger guys before ( I am attracted to the teddy bear type) but no one has ever had man boobs or had a small penis. When I say small I mean 2-3 inches. I can’t work with that! And he’s black! I’ve never heard of a black man not having a huge you know what.

    I don’t want to stop seeing him but I cannot have any type of sexual contact with him-except kissing.

    Is there ANY way to help me change my feelings or do I just break both our hearts and stop this relationship?

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    One thing you can do about the size of your boyfriend’s man boobs is start hitting the gym with him. Without making him feel self conscious, invite him to take an aerobics class or a kick boxing class or a swimming class with you. If you can work exercise into your regular dating routine then your boyfriend will get the benefit of toning up his pectoral muscles regularly. In fact, give him enough compliments so that he’s encouraged to work on his chest by himself.

    With exercise, especially exercise geared towards his pecs, as well as some dietary changes, your boyfriend has a good chance to work on his upper body with good results — for both of you! 🙂

    As for having a small penis, everybody is different in what size, shape or style of usage works for them. I’m not sure that there’s much you can do about that. If your boyfriend feels that he wishes he was bigger, then he can certainly visit a medical doctor for advice. But if you’re the only one who’s not happy with his size, the ball’s in your court — so to speak.

    Physical attraction is important, but as you yourself said, if this guy had an accident tomorrow and could never have sex with you again, you’d marry him in a second. If he’s that great, then you should consider working with what he’s got. Maybe this guy knows he’s too small to give you the kind of pleasure you crave, and has other ways to compensate! 😉

    Let me know if those suggestions work out for you, and how things go for the two of you. 🙂

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