[sebby]

Hi There

Please help…

I have been seeing this guy for a while now things are going well and he says he loves me and I mean the world to him…

The only thing is when I spoke with him last Wednesday he said just to worn you i’m going to the mountains on Friday so I won’t have signal, but I will try and go somewhere where I can get signal while i’m there, obviously so we could communicate. So I phoned him on Friday and it went straight to answer phone so therefore no signal so I assumed he was in the mountains. I then phoned him Saturday and he said he did not go to the mountains so why was his phone off?

[jenlee]

did u ask him where he was and why his phone was off? you should ask him before jumping the gun and getting worried. cause he might be nothing. which means your stressing your self out for no reason.

[Clara]

I have to agree with Jennlee — you’re really jumping the gun in your suspicions. Either you haven’t told me about his history of cheating on you or else you haven’t told me about your history of being cheated on, because barring either of those two, there’s no reason for you to be so anxious about his lack of cell phone reception on a mountain trip when he told you in advance he’d have no reception. 😕

Just tell him you tried to reach him, and you couldn’t, and ask him where he was. Don’t accuse him — just find out if his no-reception area in the mountains was greater than you or he thought it would be. This is pretty simple, and all you have to do is ask him without making him defensive.

[Member]

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