april i know u are the only one who can help me and i need ur help badly!
i was with this guy for 4 years. thought we were going to get married. every time he is broke i am the love of his life and he wants to have a baby with me. but i noticed that when he gets money, he messes with other women or dumps me. like last time i asked him when he was getting paid because he owes me $10 and he said “u just trying to get in my pockets” and i said “how when i was with u when you were broke”. he said “fine then its over”. and dumped me just like that!
also, we keep breaking up and getting back together which i hate. whenever he wants to show off in front of people he hangs up on me and then sneaks and texts me later when no one is around apologising. i also noticed that when he doesnt need somewhere to live he doesnt want to be with me but when he gets kicked out, he wants to be with me badly. i kept taking him back because i love him so much.
im about to graduate college in a year and he still didnt complete one semester and we started at the same time! also, he now has no job, and hangs out with the wrong crowd a lot.
but i am starting to feel used. like we had sex two nights in a row and then the third day he lied and said he was coming over and never showed up. i keep going back to him because i get real lonely and have no one else. plus i love him so much. we were together on and off for four years. (we never stayed broken up for more than one month).
april PLEASE just be honest, tell me what im doing wrong here, how to break this vicious cycle, and how the heck to get out of this saddness i am in because i feel like crap. now he’s out living life not caring and i am all sad alone and crying non stop! please help april. also, anyone is welcome to reply as well but i really april to reply too
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