[Anonymous]

ive been seeing a girl for a month and now she says she needs space. we hit it off really great kisses and all that, ex after five months broke up with her a few months ago.and also she had family problem so she moved into her friends house and also started working. she said she needs to get her life together first, so now im confused. i waited a week and a half she suddenly texed me so we texted a little bit for that day. and since then i havent heard from her in 4 days. she hasnt responded to my texs either? help????

[lesterkiwi]

Sounds like she was initially attracted to you, but not any more. If she was still interested in you she woud be responding. Shes NOT. Time to move on and find someone that will give you her time and devotion.

[Anonymous]

yeah shes moved on. it sucks bcuz one of mt friends told me that she started talkin to him, he said it was weird so he had to tell me. yup girls can b cruel, its strange tho she really liked me i wonder what pushed her away, maybe i moved to fast for.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I know you think it’s cruel that she broke up with you, but the reality is that dating is full of rejection — and she did you a favor by not leading you on when she wasn’t interested. Now, you get to find someone to date who wants to be with you! Dating is a process, and it’s important to get to know someone before you get too invested. It sounds like she did have a lot of problems in her personal life she was focusing on, but it could also be that you weren’t her cup of tea. There will be many women in your life who aren’t yours. Time to move on! 😉

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[Anonymous]

thx for the insight. it really helps sometimes its hard for me talk about these thngs with my friends, do yer replies are very appreciated. the sad thing is ive been single for 3 yrs since my last relationship which lasted 5-yrs. since thn i havnt gave any girls that attention till i met ths one and i tried being a nice person for a change and it did not work out. which has me confused. im jst thinkin how long do i hve to wait to find that right girl again. btw im 29 yrs old , by now most of my friends are having kids or had kids and in relationships. and it makes miss having dat feeling. i guess im jst lost,

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You don’t have to wait to find Ms. Right — you have to actively look for her! 😉 And dating is a process, it’s not a method that employs a magic wand or any easy answers. Knowing what you want, what you offer and finding someone compatible is more difficult than it sounds, but I think you can do it! 😉

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[Anonymous]

yeah u r right. u see i live in L.A so most of the girls ive meet jst havnt been right. maybe im looking at the wrong places. but then again i dont want to get with a girl i meet at a club. those almost never work out huh.. (sigh). its a tough one.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Try reading Date Out of Your League, a book I wrote for men who want to win with women. It will give you some basics and some more advanced advice that will definitely help you. Here’s the link for the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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