It sounds like the first five months of your relationship were great, sexually, and the next seven months were not. It also sounds like you’re putting pressure on him, without meaning to, to perform, and this isn’t the way to get a guy going — it’s more of a turn off, especially at his age, because he feels like he’s not fulfilling your needs, and guys want to feel that they’re the best you’ve ever had (at everything!). 😉 Asking for sex, buying “accessories” and pressing him will turn him off. What you can do is to make him want you — and I know you said you’ve been doing some things in that direction, but find the places you can do more, and work on those. Use the word “entice” as your mantra. You have to make the guy want you without pressuring him. Another thing you can do is to set the mood. You should buy a book I wrote called [b]Romantic Date Ideas[/b], [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url], because it will help you set the stage with romantic dates, in a way that sparks your sex life. Romance is important to sex in a relationship because believe it or not, many guys want to feel that romance and they do link it to sex, so if you reinstitute date nights, which are easy to lose in exchange for hanging out at the house, you’ll get back to the dating mode you were in with your guy during those first five months of dating when things were great!
I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.
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