[jadeil24]

Dear April,

Please please help. I am so confused.

I have been going out with a great guy and we seemed to have sorted everything out and then it seems to have gone wrong again.

He had a very bad day at work yesterday and i opened up to him about my past on Sunday night. I txt him to see how he was last night as i was concerned. He replied saying he is having a bad time, work is bad and what i said is sinking in. He said that i have not done anything wrong, it’s just a lot to take in. I freaked out and called him, he said that he just needs time.

Before all of this everything was well. He said that he really liked me, wants to be with me, spend time with me, he cares about me and that he is really happy. He even come home from his parents early on Sunday so that he could see me because he was missing me. We wanted to be ohnest with each other so i opend up to him about being abused in the past. He was fine at the time, then freaked out, then seemed to be fine and said i want to be here for you and can not understand how someone could hurt me. He seems so nice and caring. He has never had a relationship before me.

What does this mean? What can i do? What has gone wrong/what does he mean? I just want to be there for him and i really care about him. Dont want to loose him as there is def something speical between us.

[kikibrown22]

What was he freaked out by? It’s hard to hear, and kind of scary to find out that someone you know has been abused. He probably doesn’t know what to say or how to relate. Doesn’t sound like this would cause things to end between you, he just needs time to come to digest all of this information.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you.

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