[jonathanr]

good day my name is Jonathan and i would like to get your insight to a rather disturbing situation. My girl friend and i have been together for the last 6 years. These years have been trying at times and our relationship has been on and off but i love her, i honestly do. I would like to marry her in the not to far future but we had a major falling out within the last month which snowballed into even more arguments.
I will now begin to explain the incident that started this.
Her best friend was getting married and this was to take place over a two day period. My two best friends birthdays were also on that weekend, but i told her yes i would go to the wedding. On the second day of her best friend’s wedding i asked her to leave a little early (early being 11pm) and this is what started the whole mayhem. Apparently her friend ( the one who just got married) did not want her to leave and wanted her to stay for support and to lime with.
I told my girl friend that i was leaving and she said she would stay because her friend needed her (yes the one that just got married). Her friend told her i was insensitive, her mother told her i should have stayed by her side and support her while she support the bride (until 4 in the morning, yes that is what time she returned home).

Was i wrong in asking her to leave, was i unreasonable?
I would appreciate a third party’s perspective, one that either of us has any relation to. Your advice and ideas on this matter would help me better understand how to approach and deal with the situation.
I thank you for you time and patience in this matter and look forward to your reply

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Hey! You’ve posted this exact question FOUR TIMES on this forum, and I’ve deleted two of them. 😮 Please don’t use different names to post the same question over and over. Please only post each question once. If you register on the forum first, and then post your question — that’s even better. 😀

Here’s the response I wrote to you earlier [url]https://www.askapril.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=138572[/url].

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