[starfairy1424]

I found out Im 9 weeks pregnant (no one knows) and I have not told my boyfriend anything yet. Everytime I want to tell him we end up fighting because my Boyfriend keeps lying to me. I dont know how to feel about it, all my friends say I deserve better, but I Can’t leave him because I love him to much and I want to start a family with him we are planning on moving in together in a months time. He left me three times because I found out his lying to me. I don’t know what to do and I need advice for what will be the best for me and the baby.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If your boyfriend is a chronic liar, and you want him to be honest, you’re not going to be happy. 😳 So moving in together is probably not a good idea — especially since he’s left you three times because you confronted him about being dishonest. 🙁 Just because you love him doesn’t mean you should live together — and when you love someone who lies all the time and leaves you regularly, you’re going to be miserable if you live with him. Just because your friends say you deserve better doesn’t mean you’re going to treat yourself better. 😉 So if you feel you deserve better, than start acting like it. 🙂

As for the pregnancy, you owe it to him to tell him. If you can’t tell him in person, then at least write him and tell him — but do let him know so he can make whatever plans he wants to make to prepare for being a father. 😉

[Simon]

A man who has left you three times in difficult times is probably not ready to take on the responsibility of a child. You should stop before moving in. Building a home with a liar is not a family, but a constant stress.
I agree with AskApril that being with someone who lies and leaves you over and over again will always hurt you. It’s a bad idea to stay with him.
And April, I would like to commend your expertise, you are truly a good relationship expert, and you are right in saying that You should tell him that you are pregnant so that he can prepare to become a father or make his own plans. If you don’t dare to tell him in person, then let him know in writing

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