[anonymous95]

Alright here’s this story I really like this girl. We’ve ha a very rough past and had a short relationship that didn’t quite work out. I’ve liked her ever since but tried to ignre it and date other girls. Now she just had a rough break up with her last boyfreind who was four years older then her. She started flirting with me and spending more time with me. On random equations she’d rub my face feel my arms and abs and say I’m fat and she’s been spending more time with me. I’ve read the body language like she let’s me in her personal space and whenever we’re next to each other her knees and chest always points torwards me. She also plays around with me like earlier today our friends were teasing me and saying I was a preety boy and she went over to me gave me a hug and said this is my girlfriend. She’s the type of girl that plays around a lot but people are saying that she’s really attracted to me by the way she acts around me. I really don’t know what to do from here please help.

[Ask April Masini]

Well, you’ve talked a lot about this woman, but you haven’t once said what you want! If you want to ask her out on a date, then do it! It seems like she’d be receptive from what you’ve written about her flirting with you. There’s only one way to find out if she’ll go out with you and that’s to actually ask her.

It sounds like you may be afraid of rejection, but you have to understand that rejection is just part of life — not just dating life, but ALL life — and when someone rejects you (IF they reject you), it’s a way of them letting you know that you’d be wasting your time with them. So you see, rejection can be a gift because it’s a way of letting you know when you’re wasting time, and when you’re not wasting time.

Once you understand in your bones that rejection is a gift, and not a show stopper, then you can take it in stride more easily, and not let the fear of rejection keep you from finding out if a woman, like this one, is potential girlfriend material!

So, ask her out!

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