[adamlathan]

So I’m a super picky person and ive finally met a girl who i really like. problem is that she is is going away from France from the 10th may till start of September as part of euro camp and i dont know how to approach her about this. We’ve been on 5 dates and we’ve hit it off massively. I’ve been aware of her going to France since we started dating so its not surprise, My problem is i’ve spoken very briefly to her about it and told her that i want to spend time with her as and when i can until she goes. she asked if it bothered me that she was leaving for the summer but i said im well aware that you were going but i will miss you. Were getting along so well but were not at the serious talk stage yet but i want to know what she thinks of the whole thing. i dont want to complicate things or make thing weird between us. i just want to know if i should ask her if were gonna continue talking like we are while she is away and see what happens when she is back or if i should ask her straight up whats happening. i do really like this girl but i feel getting into a relationship with her before she goes isnt the best idea as itll force pressure but id like to see where its goes. my ideal situation would be see her until france and then talk to her and see how it goes through talking and maybe see how everything feels when shes back cause im sure we will meet up when she comes home to let me know what has happened

[AskApril Masini]

Just like you don’t know what’s going to happen while she’s away, she doesn’t either. 😉 I think you should tell her that you’ll miss her and you can’t wait to see her when she comes back, and try to be in touch while she’s gone. But it’s too soon in the relationship to make promises to each other, and those promises aren’t really full proof anyway at this stage in a relationship. It’s best to accept that she’s going to be away over the summer, and that you’ll be able to see her again in September. 😉

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