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    snhb88
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    Thanx a lot. I will surely ask u question whenever l m in trouble & l wl surely take your advice. Thanx a lot for helping me & advicing me whenever l neded it the most.

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    You’re very welcome. 🙂

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    Sally
    Member #382,674

    You didn’t ruin the relationship by having a past. Almost everyone does. What hurt him was finding out late and then seeing messages that made him feel like he didn’t fully know you. That shook his sense of security. But here’s the part people don’t like to hear once trust breaks, you can’t force it back to how it was. You can be honest, open, patient, and consistent, but you can’t make him become the person he was before.

    If he’s choosing anger, control, and constant fights instead of healing, that’s not something you can fix alone. A relationship can’t survive on guilt and punishment. Talk to him calmly one last time. If he can’t let this go and move forward, you may have to accept that love sometimes changes, even when you didn’t mean for it to.

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    Justin Jade
    Member #382,918

    It’s very difficult to rebuild trust once it’s been broken. That’s why, from now on, you need to make sure that you’re completely honest with him. You should learn from your mistakes, especially since you’ve already seen the consequences of what happened. At this point, the best thing you can do is be consistent, show that you’ve changed, and prove that you’ve learned from your mistakes and genuinely regret them. If he can’t see or accept that you’ve changed, there’s not much more you can do. Trust takes time to rebuild, and it’s ultimately up to him whether he’s willing to give it another chance. For now, all you can do is hope that, with time, he starts to become the person he was before and that your relationship can heal.

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