My boyfriend and I started having sex and he is always the one doing all the work! I am just too nervous to take the reigns and hop on top. I have before with past boyfriends, but for some reason with him, I just can’t get past the fear that he’ll think I’m awful or for some reason I won’t do it right! :p I’m having the same issue with oral sex too, which i have NEVER had! What’s wrong with me April, please help me!