[navi123]

Hello,
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for two and a half years. She has three kids from her previous marriage 5, 8, and 13. She has a busy schedule work and taking care of her kids. I commend her for what she does to make sure her kids are taking care of. We try to spend time with each other but we have conflicting schedules. I work Monday-Friday days and she works Wednesday-Monday nights. We try our best to keep our lines of communication and quality time. But it gets complicated at times. She has to make sure she takes care and spend time with her kids. In which I support her 100%. But now it seems like our quality time has become almost non-existing. So yesterday she told me that she wanted to end our relationship out of the blue. She told me that she still loves me but it will be too hard to see each other. It’s so confusing because she ask me multiple times to never leave her. The most recent was about two weeks ago when we were together. She also told me she wanted us to be strong and never to give up on our relationship. She has been doing this every once in awhile. I believe she is so confused.She texted me today telling me she truly loves me but her kids come first. I know her kids are first that’s why I never had her to choose between me and them. What should I do with this situation? Should I back off? Should I ask her to talk face to face? Because I think breaking up by text is the not the best approach.
Thanks

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Since you’ve written me before on this relationship, please repost this question as a reply on your last string of posts. That way I can see everything in one place and give you the best advice that way — and so can everyone else who wants to help you out here. 🙂

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