[romanticDreamer]

My ex and I met at a difficult period in both of our lives. We have been split up for a number of years, but recently we have made a new romantic connection with each other. She says that she is not sure if she can be my “girlfriend” again and that she would need to date other people before she could commit to me and says that I should do the same. I can understand that. So while we are having a physical relationship, she tells me that she is going out on a date with someone else that evening. (I totally love the honesty). My dilemma is that my heart is tied up with this woman and I don’t really want to go out on dates with other women(I’ve never been one to date multiple people at the same time), but she is out there dating other men and me. Am I wasting my time? We have a child together and I would love to be a complete family again? I know what I want and that’s to have someone who has my back to share some of life’s awesomeness with. The thing is I don’t want to lead someone else on and to create something new with someone else also scares me a bit.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]Am I wasting my time? We have a child together and I would love to be a complete family again? [/quote]

She’s playing the field and not interested in committing to you in spite of your child together. I know you want to be a family with her and your child, but she’s not interested in doing so. It takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one to end it. So sticking around waiting for her to make a decision, while she’s dating other guys isn’t a good idea for you.

Also, women aren’t attracted to guys who are too available and who allow themselves to get walked on. 😕 So if you’re not available, you’re going to be more attractive to her.

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