Hi April,
I’m here to seek some advice. I am 28 year-old and now back in the dating scene for about 3 months after a long-term relationship ended. I’ve been on a couple of dates and I noticed that some guys seem great at first, but I’m starting to see a few things that make me doubt them.
For example, I’ve dated 1 guy and he was really charming at first but he kept canceling schedules at the last minute.
Another guy I talked to seems nice, but he avoids talking about his past and I can’t tell if that’s being private or a warning sign.
I want to be cautious with everyone. And I guess I’m trying to figure out what are the big red flags I should pay attention.
What’s your advice? How do you spot the stuff that’s worth walking away?
It seems like you’ve had a difficult past, and I think you may have some trust issues. It will be hard for you to find a man you like if, from the very beginning, you already struggle to trust.
My advice is to focus on healing first before you plan to enter another relationship.
