I guess whether this is easy or not depends on how you look at it. 😉 If a guy isn’t that into you, why stay? You can create a lot of hard work for yourself trying to to get someone who’s not into you, to be into you — or you can recognize the signs that this isn’t going anywhere and move on. Some people would say that moving on is harder work than staying with someone just for the sake of having someone in your life. I think you should keep your eye on the ball. It doesn’t sound, from what you’ve written, like you’re a priority. When a guy asks you out on a date the day before the date, he’s not that into you. When you agree to those dates, you’re letting him know you’re okay with his not that being into you. 😕 It also sounds like you’re putting all your eggs in one basket, and are not playing the field, which will make you more vulnerable when this doesn’t work out in the long run. 😳 And, lastly, when a guy is in a nasty custody battle with his ex-wife, you should pay attention to the lay of the land — how he treats her, how they deal with custody — these are all going to be part of the life of any women he becomes involved with. Frankly, I don’t think it’s the easy way out to move on — I think it’s the smart way. 😉
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