[Anonymous]

My ex and i were together for 2 years im 20 and he’s 19…… when we broke up he came back cry but i stood strong with my choice and said no! 5 months later i decided i can’t be with out him i would think about him all the time and miss him. so i decided that i would call him and tell him how i felt to my surprise he didn’t want to get back together with me. i was crying over the phone telling him that i tried being with other people but i can’t forget about him. all he said was “i don’t know”. We talked the rest of that night and he said that the moment “he doesn’t want to be with me” and i asked if he saw me in his future he said yes. its been 2 weeks since this conversation and i love him the same way i did when we were together. But recently things have been bugging me. Every time i get a text i hope that its him. and when we do text he just answers in one word which shows that he’s not interested in having any conversation. Another thing is that i made plans with him twice to meet up and both times i text him and he never texts me back till late at night to say sorry that he couldn’t make it. he’s confusing me when we hang up sometimes he says he loves me but sometimes he doesn’t. i told him the other night that i feel like a dumb girl that loves a guy that not interested and he said ” that its not like that” i want to know if he’s going to ever be with me again will he ever start showing that he cares. so please give me some advice about what i should do???

[Ask April Masini]

Yes. You should let go. It’s over. He’s making it very clear that he doesn’t want to be with you. You wrote that there were two plans to get together, but you didn’t say who initiated the getting together. My guess is that he did not ask you out — you asked him out. And then he canceled the dates.

I think it’s time for you to move on. I know you’re heart broken, but if you start working at spending time on other things and staying busy and positive (as much as you can post break up), you’ll begin to see that there’s a whole wonderful world out there for you in which lots of great men are [i]available[/i] to you.

I hope that helps. I wish you good luck on this one!

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