[ywliv]

I am a man went with three girls (we all in our 50s) to a casual dinner and the restaurant have live band

1.We meet in a spot first then drive them to the restaurant, two girls late for 30 minutes without any apology.

2. In the restaurant, there are tables avaliable , one girl insist to seat in booth, saying its good for placing jacket and handbags, she and a girl seat the side facing the band , me and the other girl seat with our back to the band

3.Two girls sometimes talk privately. I feel quite uncomfort and disrespect.

4. When the band play cha-cha music, two girls went to the dance floor, the other girl go to the other table when a girlfriend she knows and dance with her. So I left alone with no partner to dance

5.When the band play standards – Fly me to the moon etc.. I ask one girl which I like …. do you know this song? She say…..I hate big band music its not my generation , told you I love hard rock…Bon Jovi..then ba ba ba…….

6. Its about 10.30pm one girl say we better leave cause I have a 40 mins drive home and I work 11am next morning, the other girl say I work 9am next day,still early to leave…… she do not drive and I have to drive her home-5 mins drive

I feel relax when I drive home alone, the three girls give me a rather bad impression. I should meet them again or move on?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I would love to answer your question — but first, please cut/paste and re-post it as a reply to the string of posts you’ve already started on this site here: . I’ll look out for it and will answer it as soon as you repost! 😀

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