Wait until you see her in person to talk to her — don’t give her an ultimatum by e-mail.
But until then, figure out what you want because you can’t have everything with this woman. You say you don’t want to lose her, but you don’t want her to be with her other boyfriend, too. Obviously, she’s seeing both of you and hasn’t been honest with you about it. Now that you know this, rather than give her an ultimatum at all, understand that you’re getting to know who she is, which is one of the things dating allows. Just because you’re dating someone doesn’t mean that they’re Ms. Right. If you want a monogamous relationship with a woman you can trust and be intimate with (and I mean REAL intimacy, not just sex), then this woman isn’t it for you. I’m sure you want to curse and scream, but I don’t think it’s her you’re mad it — it’s yourself.
You may want to try and salvage this, but I think if you do continue to date her it’s going to fall apart because she isn’t honest. You can cut your losses now or wait until things get worse. 😳
I hope that helps.
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