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So my fiance and I are supposed to get married August 2013. I was ready to leave him in August of this year, because he would accuse me of cheating, he wasn’t being considerate when my dad died earlier this year, and while I was pregnant with our eldest son he would say that he wasn’t his. I just gotten fed up with it and he would always told me I could just leave. He has been doing fantastic, but this past week he’s been accusing me of cheating again. So should I stay or should I go? We’ve been together for over 5 years and have a 2 year old and a 3 year old son.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like your fiance has trust issues with you. So in order to do your part, have a paternity test so that your fiance knows that your son is his — this should put that problem to bed. Then ask him why he thinks you’re cheating on him. If the reasons he’s giving you make sense or have some percentage of credence, do your part to help communicate more clearly so he sees you’re not cheating. You haven’t given much detail about his accusations, but maybe there is reason for him to conclude you’re cheating on him.

If you give his concerns no energy and he feels that he can’t trust you [i]and[/i] you’re not taking his concerns seriously, that’s really two problems in his mind. So see what you can do to help alleviate his concerns. 😉

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