[Anonymous]

Ok, so I’m really getting fed up with my girlfriend right now. She get’s upset so easily, and its really annoying. I mean, I can say something rude or mean by accident, or didn’t know what I said was rude or mean. Then she’ll get really upset at me and I’ll have to beg her to forgive me. It’s so annoying. Yet, if she says something really mean to me and I get upset, and I don’t forgive her after the first time she says she’s sorry, she gets upset at me. So, I’m losing either way. I cry everytime she threatens to break up with me. So, that must show I care about her and love her. I don’t know what to do. I mean we exchange presents on the 29th so I wanna wait until after the new years. Because I’m spending new years with her. Am I making the right decision. I mean, I know i love her and all, but sometimes this easily upsetness is killing me.

[cutipie91]

I USED TO BE LIKE THAT TO WITH MY BOI FRIEND…I DK Y BUT I KNO IT WAS CAUSIN A LOT OF PROBLEMS..I WOULD ADVICE U TO TALK WITH HER N IDNT MEAN TXT OR ON THE PHONE..HAVE A SERIOUS CONVERSATION AND IF THAT DNT WORK THEN SHE REALLY WNT CHANGE N MAYBE SHE IS THE ONE WHO DOESNT CARE

[Cristi]

some girls are like that all the time & some girls only get like that when something is bothering them. I dont know what kind of girl she is, but you should definatly have a talk with her about it. She might be feeling very insecure for some reason & thats why she is getting upset so easily. Just know that relationships have problems, & there isnt a “perfect couple” that never fights or gets upset. However you are the best judge as to how you feel about a person. If you care about her and she is treating you right, I think all you need is a talk. Tell her how you feel and suggest ways to help her fix the problem.

[Anonymous]

Maybe the problem isnt her, maybe its you. Maybe shes testing you to see if you will stand up to her. Women want a strong man, not someone that will cater and cave in to them. You keep giving in to her and trying to please her. You do this even though you think she’s the one with the problem. She probably perceives you as weak.
You beg her for forgiveness? You cry when she threatens to break up with you and you think that proves you love her? No. That reinforces that youre not a strong man that she can trust. Re read what you wrote. Who is in control here? She is. A woman that controls her man is not attractive to her. If she is exhibiting behaviour you dont like then dont put up with it. Let her know what shes doing is not acceptable. Yes, you should talk to her about whats going on, and see if there are other issues. But stop being a wuss. You might find she changes her behaviour and respects you more.
Then again she might be a raging b*tch and all is hopeless, lol.

[Clara]

Let me know how things are going for you…. 😀

[Brian]

You need to understand things more deeply. Most women are really like that—kind of dramatic and sensitive—but for men, being very sensitive isn’t normal, just my opinion.
But maybe you’re also being too insensitive and too blunt without realizing that what you’re saying is already hurtful or offensive to her. You should also observe your own behavior.

[Member]

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