Hi, I’m Keisha.
I have an ex-boyfriend and shortly after we broke up, he immediately got into a new relationship. Even though he already had a girlfriend, he continued reaching out to me and checking on me from time to time.
At first, I tried to ignore it but after about the 5th time he messaged me, I decided to tell his girlfriend about what was happening. I thought she deserved to know. However, instead of getting angry at him, she got angry at me. That situation made me feel like I was the one being blamed, even though I wasn’t the one reaching out.
After that, my ex stopped bothering me for a while. But only a few weeks later, he started messaging me again.
Then, in March, I found out that he had a new girlfriend. To my surprise, nothing had changed. He was still checking on me, messaging me and trying to keep in contact with me despite being in another relationship.
Now I’m stuck in a difficult situation. Part of me feels that his current girlfriend deserves to know what he’s doing. On the other hand, I’m afraid that if I tell her, I’ll once again be seen as the problem or the bad person in the situation.
I don’t want to cause drama but I also don’t feel comfortable keeping this to myself.
Should I tell my ex’s new girlfriend that he keeps messaging me, or should I stay out of it?
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