[Angelo]

Hello, I’m Agelo.
Andrea and I started dating near the end of our college years. Even before we became a couple, I already knew that she was the type of woman who was high-maintenance and somewhat spoiled. I never had a problem with that because I could afford the lifestyle she wanted. While we were still in college, I had several part-time jobs, so providing nice things for her wasn’t an issue for me.
At first, whenever I gave her gifts, she would thank me and seem appreciative. However, things started to change over time. Now, whenever she asks me for something and I try to give what I can, she often complains instead of being grateful. It feels like no matter what I buy for her, she is never fully satisfied.
Many of the gifts I give her go unappreciated and instead of valuing them, she focuses on wanting something more expensive. Sometimes, I put a lot of thought and effort into choosing a gift, only to feel disappointed when her reaction is criticism or dissatisfaction.
I understand that everyone has different preferences, and I don’t expect her to love every gift I give her. But lately, it feels like my efforts are being taken for granted. Instead of feeling appreciated, I often feel like I’m being judged by how much money I spend.
This has made me question our relationship. I don’t mind providing for someone I love, but I do mind feeling unappreciated and constantly compared to something more expensive.
Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my girlfriend because she never appreciates my efforts and gifts?

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