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- November 24, 2012 at 6:43 pm #5751
kikialfredMember #359,242Well….there was this boy named Sierre (My names Kierra, weird right?) Anyway, we dated. Then I found out he dropped me for this girl, and they dated over the summer. Then me and him started going to the same school. We became friends again. To make a long story short, he wanted to have sex with me and I somehow turned into a dude and treated him like a hoe. Anyway, I told myself only time I would text him, was when I wanted some. At the time, he was going out with this girl and they are still together. Then I started talking to his bestfriend. His brother, which is like a bro to me too, told me he was mad af! So ever since then, we’ll end up in the hall way alone, and he wouldn’t say **** to me. I kinda felt guilty. Last night, my sister put me out there, and told me to look at what I did wrong, and I did. Now I see how he felt, because the same thing happen to me before.Basically, she said we need to stop playing these “ratchet *** games” with each other. So she going to set me up alone with him so we can actually TALK. To be honest, I kinda do miss him, and the other part me hates him. I dont know what to do because I’m nervous about this set up, I think I gonna choke and just cry for some reason.
Then just the other day, he posted on instagram that he wishes everyone would stop askin him about me. To be real, I almosted cried because it hurt. I am so confused. Plus everytime me and my sister hang with his brother, he is always there, then we start talking againNovember 26, 2012 at 2:42 pm #25176My advice is to learn from your mistakes. You treated him solely like a sex object, and he didn’t like it and moved on. Next time, don’t be the guy — be the girl. 😉 He’s moved on and you should, too. I know you asked if “we” should make this work, but there is no “we” when he’s moved on. There’s just you. And he isn’t interested. You now have a valuable lesson about dating — use it in your next relationship.
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