"April Masini answers questions no one else can and tells you the truth that no one else will."
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Social media as a weapon

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    ananda
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    Hi April.
    My ex and I had a terrible argument a couple of weeks ago. He subsequently blocked me on Facebook and Twitter (!), yet I noticed that he periodically unhides his normally hidden “last seen” status on Whatsapp (didn’t block me there hmm). I wonder if he is spying on me, seeking proof that I’m ignoring him? I have not reacted to his blocking (sent him pleas to unblock, etc.). He does this at odd hours (we are both light sleepers). Could it be that he’s conflicted? He is anxious and a bit needy for attention. I’ve never blocked a bf like this on social media, only unfriended. I don’t feel like contacting him through there as I’m still a bit angry and might tell him something hurtful, but don’t want him to feel rejected because I am ignoring him on Whatsapp. Should I initiate contact at some point or wait for him to? I love him but tbh have lost patience with this/ him.

    Thanks!

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    AskApril Masini
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    I’m sorry you’re having a tough time. Don’t let social media distract you from the real issues in the relationship. Focus on those when you decide whether or not to get back together — not social media. 😉

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