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July 20, 2010 at 11:54 am #2752
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Member #757Hi! I am wondering if this guy really like me or something. Anyway, here’s the story! I just moved to Ontario a few months ago and after 2 months this guy, he wanted to ask me on a date and it is in front of his cousins but I didn’t answered him so ya. But another day, one of his cousins is calling me his gf so I don’t know. But time passed by, we went to someone’s house one day for bbq and we all went to line up for the burger. He was a few person ahead of me but he handed me this plate with a bun on it so I smiled and said “Thank you!”. After that he wanted to smile but he tried to hold it back. But one of my friend that was talking to me saw it and she said to him “John, how about me?” so he was forced to give up his plate to her. Another time, we were all playing games but we are on the same team and they are suppose to send someone out to play the game so he said “Kelly! Kelly’s like a tank!”. Then I went out to play and I won but I don’t know was that a compliment or not. Then we are playing another game so he came up to me and said “Kelly, u are the forward person!” and he said it in chinese too when he doesn’t speak chinese that well. Becuz he usually just speak english to me but when he was saying all those things to me, he was smiling so that’s kind of funny. haha 🙂 Somehow I realized that he is always looking at me but doesn’t come up to me and say anything to me until on Sunday after I invited all my friends including him to the amusement park. On Sunday, while I was collecting money he came up beside me and stand there so the person who is handing the money to me was looking at him. Then he quickly told him that “I already paid!” but I was busy collecting money so he went back to his group of friends. After I finished collecting the money, he came back and said “Kelly, can I get my $25 back?” so I made this “are u serious?” face to him then he just smiled happily and said “I am just joking!”. After that he asked me “are u going?” so I smiled a little bit and said “ya”. But I don’t know why he didn’t say anything after that and just back off slowly and go back to his group of friends. So weird!😕 Another thing, I realized is that when some other girls asked him to do things for them like maybe get a drink for them he will just pretend to do it but just put down their cups on the table without pouring anything in it. haha😀 [color=#BF40BF]Anyway, what I wanted to ask is does he like me? Also, was that “tank” thing a compliment? And why he suddenly speak chinese to me when he doesn’t speak it that well? Why he is holding his smile back and asked me “are u going?” when I guess he knows that I am going to the amusement park since I am the one who organized it? Please help, April! Thanks! Much Appreciated!😀 [/color] July 21, 2010 at 1:24 pm #14962Ask April Masini
KeymasterIf he asked you on a date, then — YES — he likes you. When you didn’t answer him about going on the date, you shot down his confidence, so now he’s giving you mixed signals because he thinks you don’t like him enough to answer his question about going out. 🙁 If you want a guy to ask you out, you have to give him something to chase. When you don’t answer, that gives him rejection. It’s basically a closed door. You can’t expect him to keep banging on the door.
I hope that helps.
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