[ZackSpig]

Well, I have been talking to this chick from colombia for the past 3 months. We kinda sorta fell in love. I was being a dick sometimes and had trust issues because it was a long distance relationship. Well she just started back up in school and the stress became too much. She told me she wants to start over as friends. I asked her if she still truly in her heart and soul loves me, she said yes. She said that she feels this is the best thing right now. I was supposed to go down in march to see her, I asked her if she still wanted me to, she said right now no. But we will see what happens. I asked her if we would ever get back together, she said that it depended on me. Now I also asked her if he would marry me and she said yes, but that was a month ago. I have realized I have ruined what we had, but with what she is saying, do we still have a chance of being back together?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Have you ever had a date in person?

[ZackSpig]

No. We havent.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m not sure how old you are, but I want you to understand that what’s going on is you’ve had a three month relationship with someone you’ve never met in real life — ever — and to whom you’ve proposed marriage. 😕 The internet is a great tool for many things — and it’s certainly a great way to find people you might want to date in real life. But it’s not a good place to live in, and it’s not a good place to conduct an entire relationship. Besides which, you should never propose marriage to someone you’ve never dated, let alone never even met before.

My advice is that you find someone who you can date in real life within three weeks of meeting online, so you have a healthier relationship and a better sense of who she really is, as well as who you are!

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[ZackSpig]

I mean, I asked if hypothetically, we were going to meet in person but the time has been pushed back because of her school and my work. We are 20 and 21. I was going to ask her in person when I had the chance to solidify it because I understand what you are saying. But my question was, would I have a chance with her again? I am willing to go and see her.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you moved there and were able to see her on a regular basis, then you [i]might[/i] have a chance because then you could get to know each other in person, date, and see if you wanted to continue spending time together. But it’s not something I’d recommend. 😉

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[ZackSpig]

She has already told me she still loves me and that I am a blessing. I asked her straight up, if she thinks in a few months we could be together again and she said yes. But that it depends on me.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Let me know if you have a question. 😀

[lovendar]

Its good that you are going to be friend, just talk freely and do not hesitate to discuss any issue. Relations are success if both of us care for it. Congrats both of you .. 🙄

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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